*blows off dust* Check, check, this thing on? Sibilance,
sibilance.
Back in the year 2012 I decided to make my first set of NewYear's Resolutions. I made one for every year I had been alive.
Since then, other than the ones I made for Gamerstable in 2013, 2014 (here's how we did with those), and 2015 (and the scorecard for those) I have not made
any personal resolutions. The year 2012 was a great one for me. A lot of
that is owed to the list of resolutions I made. I did not even complete half of
the resolutions, but just half of that list greatly altered how that year
turned out. After all of the life changing things that have happened in the last
few years, I have decided to make a list of resolutions/goals/bucket
list/whatever again (and the world is not even scheduled to end this year!).
So, 2016 get ready, we're going to kick some butt.
1) Go to Colorado.
-Last summer my little brother Chad and his girlfriend Jackie
acted on a huge decision they had made, they packed up all of their stuff and
made the move from Illinois where we have lived out entire lives to Colorado.
Chad has wanted to live in Colorado since our first family vacation there when
he was 8. Since then I have been to Colorado a handful of times, but not
since my aunt and uncle married back in 2007. So this year, Colorado, I am
coming to see you and your beautiful mountains.
2) Go to a gaming convention.
-This resolution was originally "Go to GenCon" but I did
not want it to be entirely hung up on one event because something could come up
that particular weekend. Back in 2012, I first started hanging out with the
Gamerstable crew (for those who do not know, this is the podcast I am on, and
my weekly gaming group), that year I went to my first convention in
Collinsville, IL. After that I went to GenCon the next two years. Last year, I
was not able to go due to our upcoming move and the new job I had just started
the month (or maybe it was two months) before. As I watched all my friends'
texts and social media posts come in I was devastated. Friday I even spent a
good portion of the day plotting out how I could get there and spend at least
Saturday there. I ended up missing GenCon, which truly is the best 4 days in
gaming, and stayed at home being a responsible adult and saving money for a
security deposit and all the other expenses included in moving (which still
ended up being more than we had expected). This year I would LOVE to get back
to GenCon, as long as a major life event or bodily injury or going bankrupt
does not happen, I plan on being there. If I can't make it due to one of those
things, a smaller convention will do. St. Louis has Geekway to the West which
comes highly recommended by my buddy Kevin aka Melvin Smif (that's his blog) aka @SharnDM (that's his twitter). I also found a con in Wisconsin
called Gamehole Con that looks quite spectacular. We will see which the winner is,
and I may even get lucky and be able to go to multiple.
3) Learn something new.
-This was one of my favorites from 2012, it led to me playing
Dungeons and Dragons for the first time and meeting some of my dearest friends
that I still have 4 years later. This year, I think it will not be something
quite as epic as my lifelong headfirst plunge into gaming but it is something
very close to my heart. Growing up my siblings and I would spend the majority
of our days in the summer at my grandma and grandpa's house. My grandma was the
one who taught me how to cook, how to garden, and how to sew among many other
things. This Christmas she got me a sewing machine. Other than a few minor
things here and there, the only thing I have sewn was a quilt and my grandma
was there to help me every step of the way. This year, I am hoping to learn to
sew clothes. I have watched her alter clothes and even did some of it myself
(this falls in the minor category), but I have never done anything from the
ground up. With my lifelong love of costumes/dressing up having a new (3 year
old) outlet in cosplay, I would very much so love to be able to sew my own
costume to wear to a con (or Halloween or Tuesday). Mind you, my resolution is
to learn something new and this goal may change to something like spelunking,
for now, this is what is on my mind. Just think of all the cute new dresses I
will be able to add to my closet!
4) Finish 12 paintings this year.
-2015 was the year I fell in love with painting. It started with a
paint night with some of the best people I know, hosted by the wonderful Nancy. (Seriously, if you live in my area, you
should click her name and sign up for a night of painting with her.) After my
first night painting with her, I knew I was hooked. The very next night I went
to Michael's and bough canvas, paint, and brushes and I've been painting ever
since. I had a pretty long streak of painting once a week, most of which I
would finish the painting that day. Here recently, however, I have been trying
to stretch myself and do things that are a little more challenging. More complex
backgrounds and things that I am really not sure I can do prior to starting.
That, plus I no longer have a roommate with a blow dryer... that slows things
down A LOT. So my goal is one a month, I think that's attainable.
5) Karaoke.
-This is one that was leftover from 2012; I STILL have never gone
to a place to karaoke. At my last job, we would talk about it all the time; we
never got around to planning it. This year will be the year of karaoke. It will
happen. I will not chicken out.
6) Continue updating my budget.
-Around the same time I had to miss GenCon due to not saving any
money other than what we needed to move, I decided we should have a budget.
There should be somewhere, written in stone, how much money is coming in and
how much money is going out, along with how much money it is ok to throw away
on stupid things like Cat Foot Mops if the mood strikes. It
took awhile to turn that decision into a reality, we ended up not moving until
October, and as soon as we moved into that place, we had to move out and into
another. But finally in November, I had pretty decent estimates of all the
outgoing dollar amounts for bills, and I had known since I started my new job
all of the incoming, so I was able to sit down and make a budget. I had not
planned on actually starting a budget until January, but to have the most
accurate budget, you need to start a little early. My spreadsheet for November is
pretty much a mess, December is better, but there were still changes and
updates to be made for January. I'm sure I will have to continue tweaking my
budget through the year; I already have a few things that won't be able to take
effect until February. But the important thing is continuing to update my
budget and remaining mindful of that incoming to outgoing ratio, especially
when it comes to things like savings.
7) Run Deadlands.
-This one was not one I came up with on my own. If you could not
tell from the first paragraph of this post, every year on my podcast we do a
resolutions and challenges episode, where we make our resolutions for the year
and the other members are free to challenge us to make some change or another
in our lives. Being a gaming podcast, these are all gaming related and not many
personal ones make the show (though there have been a few). This year Eric
challenged me to run a game of Deadlands. This was a really good challenge for
me. I borrowed Eric's Deadlands books for about a year, reading them, taking
notes, wanting to play and never getting a chance to. This year, I still may
not to be on the player side of the screen, but running it is a good
alternative. For the people who are not gamers reading this (or even the people
who are gamers, but are not familiar with Deadlands), Deadlands is a tabletop
roleplaying game (tabletop roleplaying games are best known by the game
Dungeons and Dragons). Deadlands is set in the old west, it is a slight off
shoot from history as we know it, the civil war did not go the exact way we
know to have gone among many other things. I mentioned previously those summers
at my grandma and grandpa's house, and the love of sewing and cooking my
grandma infused in me, well, the love my grandpa handed down to me was of
Westerns. Maverick is one of the first live action movies I remember seeing
(after looking at the release date, I have come to the realization that it was
most likely not, but the memory of a child is a wobbly one and things get
mashed together). In addition to Maverick, we would watch things like
McClintock! and Tombstone and pretty much anything in the John Wayne
collection. There were two settings on the TV once my grandpa got home from
work, Westerns or News. While I was still in film school I always wanted to
make a Western, as I have chosen a very different path in life, it is about
time I run a game set in one. If you want to listen to Eric's challenge and the
rest of the gang's resolutions/challenges go on over to the Gamerstable site and give it a
listen.
8) Get back down to my Weight Watchers goal weight.
-I know losing weight is a cliché resolution. It kills me to put
this. Actually, it does not kill me at all, because I had to come up with
sixteen resolutions and that is a lot. Back in 2011 I started Weight Watchers
for the umpteenth time, but this time it was different. I was bound and
determined to stick with it and I wasn't just joining up because I felt I
should or because my mom was doing it. I had decided to start going to meetings
and I drug my mom, my Aunt Sharon, and my friend Evan along. That round of
Weight Watchers did end up being different, I lost nearly 50 lbs. and I kept it
off for several years. Meeting my boyfriend and dating him and moving in with
him has not been conducive to continuing this weight loss maintenance (yeah,
yeah, more stereotypes and clichés), and I've gained a lot of the weight I lost
back. After Thanksgiving of this year and getting all the stress of moving and
job-hunting, and the health issues I had been having out of the way, I started
Weight Watchers up again. It's been a little over a month and right now my
total lost sits at 12 lbs., post-Christmas weigh in was a bit of a setback but
I'm hoping to get back on track and I would like to get back to the weight I
know I feel most comfortable in sometime in the year of 2016.
9) Do another 5K.
-I was reading through my old 2012 resolutions and thinking of the
ones I did not complete. In 2012 I wanted to run a 10K, I did not end up doing
that, I ran 2 separate 5Ks, but that does not count. The last 5K I ran (as an
actual race, not just that distance), was probably back in 2014 or 2013. This
year I want to run a 5K again. I used to love running so much, but since moving
away from my hometown I have not done much of it.
10) Volunteer twice.
-This is another 2012 reject. I thought it would be so easy to
volunteer two times that year, in the past I had volunteered way more than
that, with girl scouts or my church, so I was certain I could do it, I set a
low bar of twice, after all, that should be easy. Well, it ended up not being
nearly as easy as I thought it would, back then I was working about 70 hours a
week, so in order to volunteer I was going to have to make it happen, not just
wait for it to fall in my lap. This year, I know to be more proactive about it.
That being said, this is a little front loaded as my good friend Kelsey, who I
have talked about on this blog before, has already organized an
evening/afternoon volunteering at The Ronald McDonald House later this
month.
11) Start Brandon's campaign.
-This is another one that generated from the Gamerstable
Resolutions and Challenges episodes (again, feel free to give it a listen). Awhile back our Wednesday night crew
started playing 5th edition Dungeons and Dragons, Brandon was a little bummed
he could not join us, so I started planning a one on one campaign just for him,
with me running it and him playing a monk. Well the aforementioned move and
then getting ready for the holidays really slowed us actually starting this
campaign down, so I'm hoping to get back in the saddle and finish planning our
first chunk of adventure soon.
12) Read 12 books.
-Yet another failed 2012 goal. As I said, back then I did not have
a lot of free time to read. In the two months I had Kindle Unlimited I read 6
or 7 books, so I am hoping that is an indicator that it is okay to make this a
resolution again.
13) Purchase 6 disposable cameras, take pictures with them, and
get them developed through the year.
-This was originally a disposable camera a month, but with how
much easier it is to just whip out my iPhone and take pictures, I thought that
was a little more than I could handle. Back in 2012 I had a resolution to take
more pictures and do something with them. I succeeded on a technicality, more
than nothing is not much at all. However, part of the way through the year I
fell in love with the idea of using disposable cameras and I applied it.
Honestly, I probably went through more than 6 in the short span I was still
working hard at that resolution. But I loved how all the pictures came out, and
actually having physical pictures again. So this year, buy and use disposable
cameras, at least six of them, and get them developed.
14) Take at least one trip (trips to fulfill other resolutions do
not count).
-I used to travel all the time, then somehow I got down to just
one trip a year (GenCon), and last year I did not take a single trip (aside
from a couple of out of town weddings, that I am not counting because we were
only there during wedding event thing and to sleep afterwards). This year, I am
going places! You know, literally going places.
15) Do something new and/or risky.
-This is kind of a remix of several of my 2012 resolutions. I
could not come up with specific things I wanted to do like ride an elephant, or
going skydiving. I have been lucky and have been able to do a lot of really
cool things, I try every year to do something new, but I do not yet have plans
for anything this year, maybe I will finally get around to learning to rock
climb? Perhaps skydiving and me will have another date? Or maybe there's more
white water rafting in my future? My cousin offered to teach me to surf... I'll
think of something to fill this generic slot.
16) Get another year older.
-I could not resist adding my favorite resolution to the end of my
list, for the record it gets completed in May when I age, not a year from me
making this resolution.
So there we have it. I am rebooting the same blog I started back
in 2012 for the same reason I initially started it. Cheers 2016, I'm looking
forward to you.